My List

So last spring I was charged up about not having a list or criteria so to speak that I look to when choosing someone to date. Then recently, I was told that I should at least have something so I know for sure what I don't want. Or when I make a mistake I could go back and say, "oh yeah, that's why it was on the list!" In any case I have succumb to the pressure and decided to make a list.

1. Visibly puts God first - now, I added visibly because EVERYONE says they believe in God and that he is the head of their life but we can't always see it. I don't want to have to ask my ideal mate how important God is to him, I want to be able to detect it based on his actions.

2. Has obtainable goals and a plan to accomplish them - Though I constantly keep my head in the clouds my feet are firmly planted on the ground. I think the same should go for him.

3. Is fun to be around - In my world laughter is vital for survival.

4. Loves me as much as I love him - I have very high expectations concerning how people should treat the people they love. If you share those expectations we'll be fine!