So semi recently I was in a quasi-relationship. During this time I realized there are a lot of things about a relationship that I really enjoy. So, I decided I was ready for a real relationship. So after the quasi relationship ran its course I asked my cousin, Marcel, to hook me up with one of his friends. His initial comment was, “He’s a lot like me so I don’t think you want to deal with that.” He immediately retracts his statement by saying, “Well, you’re basically a guy so maybe HE shouldn’t talk to you. I would hate for you to play him.” As you can imagine I was very offended. I gasped and said, “Marcel, I can be a GREAT girlfriend just ask _____________.” So he replies, “I didn’t say you COULDN’T be a good girlfriend, I’m saying you don’t want a boyfriend right now. You’re not ready for that.” Now who is Marcel, of all people, to tell me what I want and what I don’t want or what I’m ready for; he doesn’t even know what he wants! Luckily for me I don’t need his help to find guys to date. I’ve gone out on a couple of dates with a couple of different guys but the situation always turns out the same.
Guy #1 – Now guy number 1 is a good guy. He has a stable job, steady income, and he’s into me (so he says). So what’s the problem? Guy #1 is confined to his home. I like to be out and about so that’s not really going to work for me. And we just don’t have a lot of things in common.
Guy #2 – Like guy #1 he’s a good guy, has a stable job, and steady income. So what’s the problem? We’re on a date and I think we’re having a wonderful time, somewhere during the conversation he states, “I’m really good at this dating and having fun thing, but I have a problem when it comes to relationships.” (sigh) Well at least he let me know on date one right?
Guy #3 – Starts off the same as the other two, good guy, stable job, and steady income. So what’s the problem? We’re not on the same page on a lot of topics mainly religion.
Alright, so we have three different guys with three different reasons to not be in a relationship. So I will be the first to say maybe Marcel was right, maybe I’m just not ready for this whole relationship thing. Good thing I LOVE to date!
Even if you are ready for a relationship, if the other person doesn't fit your qualifications, that just means you all are not compatible. There is nothing wrong with you, keep going through the deck of cards until you find your Ace of Spades. It might be at the bottom of the deck or the middle, but just think of all the cards you have to go through to get it. And, while shuffling through them cards, have the BEST time of you life!
ReplyDeleteIt can't be you! You're wonderful! You should have gone with guy # ME! LOL
ReplyDeleteIt's just not your time yet, but the time will come when someone can appreciate your consummate worth!
Awww, I'm wiping away my tears!
ReplyDeleteWell guy # Me would have to be able to take me with sweats, a big t-shirt, and a head wrap on a regular basis without saying anything mean lol. If you think you could handle all that and take a job up this way I'll be available!
Well, I don't think you should complain, missy. You went on three dates. I haven't gone on one!
ReplyDeleteAlthough I hate when people tell me this but....your time will come. Have fun dating. Its a great opportunity to see what you like... and even better to see what you don't. The right one will come along that recognizes your worth and won't let go. You aint even in your late twenties yet. Enjoy it while you can
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